Just a thought

Well it has been a while since my last entry. But a few things have crossed my mind lately. Here it is. What is the definition of a good or great date? Does it include having sex as well? Do we now turn to the internet to meet people? It seems as though people these days have resorted to web sites to make potential date. Now some will say that certain web sites are sex sites only. I think that you make a web site what you want it to be. If you are looking for a sexual hook up then when you log into that given site that should be your main focus. But there are some that use the web sites to find a potential mate. I don't think there is nothing wrong with that. No matter what others say. I personally have used on e of these sites and found a partner. However, it did not last long but 7 years I think is pretty good. It did not end the way I wanted it to, but that's life. Now back to the good/great date. If there is a strong physical attraction between the 2 men then there is a 90% chance sex will happen. What seems to be happening lately is that there is no other second date! That is where the issue lies. Was it because sex happened too early? Was it because the sex was not good? I hear people say that sex is not an important part of the relationship. I say Give me a break! YES tha HELL it is!!! We are men and men enjoy sex, period! Whether you are gay or hetro-sexual you enjoy it. You think about it, you think about who you want to do it with as well. So stop kidding yourself! It does not make you a bad person and it does not mean you are a nympho. It means you are a man. The thing that seems to be missing is the nice dinner and/or movie. We seem to have gotten away from that. Why? I still wanna keep that alive if I can and I am sure there are some out there that feel the same way. Again, I dont think that sex on the first date is bad. I actually heard of someone that had a 90 day rule before they were physical with someone. That sounds like some stuff that he heard on girfriends and it was a rule that Joan used. Well we all know how well that turned out? She was still single even when it went off the air. Again we are MEN, WE ARE SEXUAL. So whos to say that the other person is not getting any on da side? Maybe, maybe not! But I would have many doubts if I lived by that rule. Well anyway, just something to think about. As always stay safe and have fun!